my journey

topic posted Wed, July 30, 2008 - 10:33 PM by  Justin
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I just found this site the other day. I thought I would join and say hello.

I dreaded my hair January 27, 6 months ago. They started at 3-4 long. At first I could make a fist around the dread and the hair wouldn't come out the top. Now they are 6-7 inches long. I'm hoping my 1 year mark they will be long enough to tie back without looking goofy.

Anyway, a friend of mine backcombed a little but mainly twisted and waxed. (She really didn't do a good job at first) I learned very quickly that wax was just making my hair greasy and preventing lockage. So I washed the wax over time and continued to work with my hair using the comb to push the unraveling knots towards the roots. I do this very gently to minimize breakage. I'll occasionally use a small crochet hook to work dread balls into the roots. I'll back comb the loose hairs into the tips if I feel like having "neat" dreads that day. I really don't work do that much to each individual dread. I' might palm roll each for 30 seconds. But beyond that it's just washing every 1-2 weeks and waiting. I find that dancing makes my hair lock up the best as it swings around while wet and sweaty. Up until now, I have been changing the rubber bands but I feel they are a hinderance. I still have a few in but I take a few out each day. Now, I feel they should have been out a while ago...Oh well.

But I just uploaded some pics into my gallery. They were taken on my cell phone cam for now until I can get my digital cam out and have someone take some pics. So here they are. Tell me what you guys think.
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Justin
Indianapolis
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  • Re: my journey

    Thu, July 31, 2008 - 7:29 AM
    Your locks look great my friend. I would suggest leaving the rubber bands out though. I started my dreads without them and a year later, they're doing just fine. Plus you wouldn't want any getting stuck in there. I've seen what that looks like and it's gross. Your dreads look awesome and I like how they're parted on the side instead of the middle. I haven't really seen that much but I like it. Good luck.
    • Re: my journey

      Thu, July 31, 2008 - 9:44 AM
      Yeah, it's pain in the ass(or head) to get those rubberbands out. I wish I never would have left them. As you say, they are being swallowed by the dreads and when I do take them out, they always bring hair with them. I try to just cut them out and hope for the best. I have changed them 2-4 weeks up until now, which I realized they aren't doing anything except being counterproductive. I wish I would have researched places like this and other forums more before dreading my hair. As it turns out there are a lot of biased website just selling products with less than favorable methods of dreading which I followed in the beginning. But it's definitely great to get those ridiculous bands out of there.

      As for the part...ha. I have always had that part there and when I dreaded my hair, my intention was to get rid of it. I don't know why but I didn't like it. But as my hair started to lock up and find its natural way of falling, the part came back. I now like it and couldn't imagine my dreads without it. But for me, parting in the middle always looked ridiculous so it's nice that my hair turned out presentable with a part on the side.

      Right now, I am using the dreadhead shampoo. I kinda like it in the sense it doesn't smell, makes my hair feel tighter after every wash, and doesn't give me dandruff(like some claim). But I think after the bottle(my one bottle has lasted 6 months) runs out, I am going to switch to Dr. Bronners soap. I have been using it to wash my body for a long time, just never thought to put it in my hair :). It's by far my favorite brand of soap.
      • Re: my journey

        Thu, July 31, 2008 - 9:40 PM
        RE; Rubber bands....I would highly recommend getting another person in on the operation..using a small pair of very shar scissors....to try and get those bands out with as little hair damage as possible...! Otherwise you're gonna end up with all these shorter pieces of hair that will just end up as frizzies... :s

        Shampoo - Cool, I've heard many good things about Bronners, although I've never used it (can't seem to get it over here in AU)...Good luck, hope it works for you! It's so difficult to find a good one that works for you...As you said, some people find Dreadhead horrible, yet others like myself find it a godsend, some like Knotty Boy, some don't (It gave me dandruff which forced the cutting of dreads)...but I have not yet heard a bad word said about Dr Bronners :-D

        I don;t mind your part at all...It makes your dreads unique and interesting :-)
  • Re: my journey

    Thu, July 31, 2008 - 8:59 AM
    Justin, they look lovely! Beautiful :-D Great pics and even lovelier dreads! Bravo!

    I would agree that bands are probably not necessary - I never used them...but I did have a friend who did and she never really maintained them and I ended-up being the one who had to "try" and cut them out from all the matted hair :s Take em out, and yeah, concentrate on working your roots manually...whether it be when you have some free time and can root-rub, or whatever...I always found that the method that worked best for me, was using Dreadhead Shampoo (for some reason it just really locked-up my otherwise very straight hair that was hard to dread), and whilst in the shower for a wash, I would apply shampoo and kinda root rub it in with my flat palm, rinse well etc....then air-dry...and yeah roots locked up AMAZINGLY! Prior to doing this, my roots were undreaded probably 3 inches from my scalp, and yeah, at the end, when i cut them off in March, they were right up at the scalp...I never had to root rub either - the shower trick 'did the trick' lololol

    With regards to the tips, I would recommend the rip and pull method (for lack of a better term lol)...it's where you kinda take the tip-end of your dread and pull it apart from the tip up, as far as it will go, like you were trying to separate t into two dreads....when you have got it as far as it will go, put the two sections back together. Do the same thing again, pulling it apart into two pieces, but not using the same two parts of the dread...it's really hard to explain....the second time, you want to do the pull, but separate the dread in a different spot, continue down the dread to the tip (right to the end), using different sections each time...then palm roll nice and hard! This will create the hardened long tips, rather then the rounded tips, though...but I think the long ones look nicer :P

    Good luck :-)
  • Re: my journey

    Thu, July 31, 2008 - 2:00 PM
    they look great. i got the side part too. hurray for the side part!!!!
    • Re: my journey

      Thu, July 31, 2008 - 5:57 PM
      My babies are over 2 years old and I stil, on occasion will use a rubber band if I have alot of loosey-gooseys at the root...too many to woven in with a crochet hook. I have found that after a couple of weeks they break apart and I can just pull them out without any problem.

      Nice locks, digging the part!
  • Re: my journey

    Tue, August 5, 2008 - 12:48 PM
    Hi Justin. Dreads definitely suit you. They look like they're doing really well. I took the rubber bands off my roots after the first time I washed them so I had no problem. I took them off the tips about two weeks after getting dreads. It was a huge pain in the ass. My curly hair was devouring them. I found the easiest way was to use a tiny crochet hook to grab a piece of it, pull it out, and use scissors to snip it. Then use the crochet took to pull it out, loop by loop. Sometimes it took five minutes for me to even grab a piece of the rubber band... Took me a whole weekend to get them out. I actually just discovered a couple of days ago that one is still in there ... almost completely devoured. Weird.
  • Re: my journey

    Wed, August 6, 2008 - 5:33 AM
    Great dreads, Justin!

    With regards to rubber-bands: If you don't dig 'em, by all means toss them...but they work great for me. My locks tend to try to lock together (ripping almost every day to keep them apart), so the bands help real close to the scalp, and I also put them in my hair in stubborn areas and sometimes just for color/decoration. They break & fall on their own, so I can change the color scheme every couple of weeks.

    You're dead on concerning wax. It's no good and just mucks things up.
    • Re: my journey

      Mon, September 15, 2008 - 8:45 AM
      I haven't really done much with my hair since a few weeks before the original post and I would say by doing nothing sped things up exponentially. I really could care less how fast it goes at this point, I just enjoy them now and await to see what they will look like tomorrow. I think thats the big difference from when you start to after they start to mature into their own. The biggest difference is gives me a lot more confidence in not letting what people think of me on issues totally unrelated to my hair.
  • Re: my journey

    Fri, October 17, 2008 - 10:27 AM
    Your dreads look great! They're so neat and tidy. Mine are really fuzzy and there are alot of wispy loose hairs. Dr. Bronners really is great stuff and comes in many scents. The tea tree oil one is my favorite. Peace, Kelly

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