I think I messed up

topic posted Sun, December 28, 2008 - 10:15 PM by  Zoie
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I'm redreading after 10 years with more "mainstream" hair. Last time around, I went with the chemical method. This time, I decided to go neglect. After only a few weeks, my hair has been happily going about it's business aggregating around larger ringlets into some nice fuzzy dreadlings. But, now it's pretty much all turned into one giant mass on the back of my head and I'm afraid I really f'd up. What should I do? My hair is natural, no-chemicals, blonde, fine, curly, tends toward dreads when not flat-ironed (how I had been handling it for the last few years) It was below my shoulderblades, but it has knotted up to above my shoulders. I'm afraid of mold if I leave it. I'm afraid to tear or comb it out for fear of losing all my hair-not to mention dreads. If I tear or something, how do I do it? Please help.
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Zoie
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  • Re: I think I messed up

    Mon, December 29, 2008 - 2:00 AM
    Wow ok, yeah...don't worry, almost any dread problem is fixable...but...I would recommend, if the problem area is at the very back of your head, that you maybe (if possible) get somebody to help you with the fixing...just makes things a hell of a lot easier!

    What you could do, depends on just how much of a mess you're talking about...do you mean you have one giant mat on the back of your head? or do you mean the dreads have all started to weave into one another? It only makes a difference in terms of how much work it's gonna be, but it's NOT impossible to fix :)

    I have always been a keen advocate of tearing, but again, this depends on just how tight this 'mess' is...if it's tearable, then yeah, tear away...work-out your roots first...That is, ascertain where your dreads are "supposed" to be on your scalp...and tear down the length...If you start at the tips or mid-length, you'll very likely end-up with uncomfortable roots that pull cos they're not neat and even...so yeah, decide on sections for your dreads and do some rippin...otherwise, if they're too tight to rip, grab yourself a stanley knife/razor blade/box cutter, and from the very top, where it has started matting next to the root, very gently give it a little slice to separate...usually you can rip the rest of the way...I did this on my last set of dreads...some of the ones around my neckline had matted together, and I had to actually slice them the whole length down cos they were so tight...I followed this procedure with a nice tight binding in coloured cottons, which I kept in a good month or so...and never had an issue with any of the cut bits falling-out...and I have dead-straight hair!

    Good luck! :) xx


    wow ok, yeah my first instinct would be to go for the tearing method, deciding (from the roots) where you want your dreads to be, and working your way down, tear them...however...if your hair is really thick, or the mats are too well-dreaded, you may have to use a stanly knife/box cutter/razor blade, to very gently lice down the length.
    • Re: I think I messed up

      Mon, December 29, 2008 - 2:02 AM
      Damn that's what happens when you work in a response in stages :P LMAO! oopsie daisies ;-)
      • Re: I think I messed up

        Sun, January 11, 2009 - 6:33 PM
        that helped me a lot too. thanks!
        • Re: I think I messed up

          Mon, January 12, 2009 - 5:48 AM
          aww unreal! :D Let us all know how it goes hey? xx
          • Re: I think I messed up

            Tue, February 3, 2009 - 6:27 PM
            Thanks so much for the reply, B.
            I followed your advice and it saved my hair. I took time ripping and sectioning. I ended up with dreads in various lengths, sizes, and strengths. So, I found a great stylist in Oakland to get more help. She refined what I had started with more ripping and rolling. She said I was really lucky that my hair dreads up so quickly, but I'll have to watch it because of that. I had been saving my own hair (I had been losing it in clumps after back to back pregnancies) to put out in a mesh bag for the birds to use in their nests in the spring. Maybe a little weird, I know, but, I loved the idea of baby birds snuggling in to my hair. Anyway, she used that along with some synthetic hair to repair the weak dreads and lengthen the short ones to a more uniform length. It took 9 hours, but I'm so pleased with how they turned out. I was ready to wait patiently for them to look so good, but I got a little jump-start this way. And I learned my lesson to take care of them diligently. They are like babes I need to nurture to keep them happy, healthy, and growing strong. I posted an after pic. I wish I'd taken some during photos. Some of them were hilarious-especially during my "Crabman" phase.

            On a side note, for anyone interested, the salon and stylist were: Rhonda at Nappy or Not 411 E 18th Oakland, CA 510.735.7838, She has a lot of experience with all ethnicities of hair.
            • Re: I think I messed up

              Wed, February 4, 2009 - 8:04 AM
              Oh wow they're looking awesome!! :D Congrats!

              Any problem is fixable, just some stuff takes some time and effort...but all well worth it in the end LOL

              Glad to meet another with little thin dreads like mine :)) (Just wish mine dreaded-up fast...damn this straight hair! )

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