something terrible happened...

topic posted Mon, February 11, 2008 - 4:08 PM by  Kit
one of my dready friends came over my house the other night, and told me she had an awesome way to tighten my roots. I was excited! She told me to sit down and she started working, and i mean WORKING my dreads, she ripped at them and tugged at them until I realized she was looping my dreads through the roots...which I've heard can be horrible for your hair...
So my question is this, has anyone looped dreads that are under a year old? And if so do you have pictures or any ideas on how mine might turn out? I'm really scared, I've tried to take a bunch of them out but many of those tries were failures...
Someone help!!!
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  • Re: something terrible happened...

    Mon, February 11, 2008 - 4:18 PM
    i did the loop inside thing when i first got started and i had problems with it, i have strait hair so i think thats why. i don't see how looping i back in itself makes it any better, it just splits the dread in to that don't like to play together any more.

    the technique i use is once the dread had grown about an inch out from my head i rotate it CW or CCW for a few mins, getting it really broken and messy. occasionally twist it so keep it tight. dread way and a rubber band.

    good luck!!!!!!!!!!
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    Mon, February 11, 2008 - 6:06 PM
    I have tried that. I read a post about it some time back and then tried it before I read a reply that said NOT to do it! Boy, I felt stupid for jumping the gun. The result has been this: Some of them worked out totally great and continued in a circular dread; Some others became kind of split in two at the root (weird, bad). What I did with these problem dreads was split the root in the opposite direction, pulling it through both of the sections again (hard to explain) which kind of brought them back together again. Then when I got some longer fuzzies around the base I wrapped the root before crocheting the fuzzy back in. You probably don't need to wrap it back through the opposite way; I bet it would help just wrapping the root together. Mine have continued dreading very nicely, even some that I didn't do anything to after the initial looping-through. Anyways, that's my experience! I wouldn't worry too much about it..
  • Kit
    Kit
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    Tue, February 12, 2008 - 6:45 AM
    I was thinking about cutting my hair short and starting over again...I'm just not happy with my results as of right now because of that girl...they were doing so well, then she really screwed me up, and theyre almost 7 months...

    should i keep them and hope for the best, or just start over?? I'm scared and alone, since no one around here in NH seem to know what they're doing, I don't think anyone really cares to help me either here =[

    *sigh* much love,
    wish me luck!
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      Tue, February 12, 2008 - 6:59 AM
      dont cut them!!! especially if they're already 7 months old! just let them go on their own. they will work themselves out. to tighten up the roots, rub your roots in a circular motion and they should cooperate. this should help even if they are split at the root from your overzealous friend.

      good luck!
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      Tue, February 12, 2008 - 7:57 AM
      Oh my gosh, please, please don't cut them!

      Root flipping won't kill them. Granted, it's not good either, but just relax a bit and think.

      First off, never ever let her touch them again. Secondly, excessive root flipping can lead to your dreads looking a bit wiggly and stuff, but one session shouldn't destroy them too much, if at all. I would simply return to your regular routine. If some of the roots start to split, weave them back together when they get a bit longer. (You can use a felting needle once they're dread and not root anymore.) I think you'll be fine though.
      • Kit
        Kit
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        Tue, February 12, 2008 - 10:26 AM
        aaah, Laa, I'm so happy to hear your advice, along with everyones...It just got me really down thinking that I've been working so hard on them and they might be f-ed =\ but I feel a lot better now! I'm going to dye them brown again tonight (my blonde keeps wanting to pop through) so maybe they will tighten up a bit from that, and I ordered a felting needle last night!!! so having you say that makes me happy <3
        I also found out a sick trick with a felting needle and wool, if you ever want to add color but don't want to dye your dreads and ruin them, just felt some colored wool into them!! I'm going to give it a try on the tips of some of mine, when I do I'll post pictures for all of you lovelies!
        I appreciate the love and guidance from all of you!!
        much love!
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          Tue, February 12, 2008 - 1:07 PM
          MY GOD WOMAN ARE YOU INSANE???? Don't cut them babies!!

          They will grow and get better and this will soon just be distant memory of something that was tired and just didn't work.
          • Kit
            Kit
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            Tue, February 12, 2008 - 3:54 PM
            hahaha not insane, just saddened, i feel like i worked so hard and it's sad how one person can mess things up =\
            but they arent going to be cut off, i'm keeping my babies, it's just some days i have bad hair days and some days i have really awesome hair days, today turned into one the latter =]
            thank you all for your wonderful advice, even if you all think i'm nuts!!! haha your all wonderful and I appreciate all of you whole-heartedly
            much love!!
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          Wed, February 13, 2008 - 6:11 AM
          :) Gald you're not snipping.

          One thing ti be careful about with wool though. (I'm a knitter, and a hyper wool snob.) When it gets wet, if you don't dry it properly it will smell really, really rank. As it is, most woll can smell rather rank when wet as it is. Also, just remember once that colored wool is in there, it's in there forever. You're gonna have to wear it, even when it fades, and when you dye over ti it's not going to take like your hair will. Make sure you order some quality roving off the internet or pick some up in a real yarn shop (not a craft store).

          That being said, I think dreads with colored roving felted into them are beautiful!
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            Wed, February 13, 2008 - 6:40 AM
            What's a felting needle?
            • Kit
              Kit
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              Re: something terrible happened...

              Wed, February 13, 2008 - 6:57 AM
              yeah! I saw this girl on another dready site that had them felted into the ends of some of her dreads, and she recommended 100% roving wool, so I picked some up along with a felting needle. I guess she said as long as they are dried (like you were saying) then they should be fine and shouldn't smell...I dont think I'm going to play with the wool right away, I'm just going to use the felting needle to help tighten up the middle of my dreadies (Lee Ann, a felting needle is a long sharp needle with little hooks all over it to pull wool and material together by making it tangled, you do this by stabbing the material repeatedly, I haven't tried it yet so...well see how it goes!!) But as soon as I use the needle I'll post pictures, and once I'm brave enough to put some color into them, I'll post more!!
              I can't tell you how much I appreciate everyones advice, I'm not going to cut my locks, I love them WAY too much, and I know they still have a lot of growing to do, but man when I have my bad days...

              <3 you all!!!
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                Wed, February 13, 2008 - 2:31 PM
                i used a crochet hook at one point because i read about it online, it did me no good. the technique i posted above is all that i found to work. that and time to let the dreads find themselves. speaking of which guess what i'm doing tonight? thats right twist twist twist goop and lock!
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      Sun, February 17, 2008 - 6:21 PM
      it takes a good two years! wait and work on it.. put more energy in em
      if you are wooried about splitting.... maybe beeswax the roots once a week on those locks..we rub the root with the tips of our fingers
      i have even tied knots in them...lower down tho
      good luck
  • Re: something terrible happened...

    Wed, February 13, 2008 - 9:57 PM
    Wow…I find this to be an incredibly strange discussion, because my only form of maintenance for the roots of my dreads is the looping technique. I've had my dreads now for ten months, and my first maintenance was after only three months. I've had two intensive maintenance sessions with my dreads gal, and other than that I constantly loop the roots myself. I've had absolutely no bad experience with this method (aside from an incredibly sore head from the two intensives)
    For people who have problems, I can only think of a few reason why not to loop, but all have solutions and it's just because the method isn't done the right way. If you loop them too tightly, they will get all weird and swirly. Of course if you loop them too much without splitting the direction of the loop you're going to get two strands of dread, which of course isn't what you want either. The trick is splitting the hair at the root one way, looping, and then splitting the opposite way. Also, I've accidentally looped one dread into the root of another…but now I've got this cool dread that's one and two at the same time.
    This has yielded smooth dreads from the roots down…but if you don't want that effect, then of course this method is not for you…This method may just work for me because I have thin thin dreads, so it's really the only way they will dread at the root. I think a better way for a person with thicker dreads would be a combo looping with…what would you call it…root rubbing? Do you know what I mean? I know the root rubbing works great for thicker dreads (just don't over do it or the knots get huge at the root, so I've been warned).
    Best
    • Re: something terrible happened...

      Sun, February 17, 2008 - 9:40 PM
      i keep reading about crocheting in the fuzzies up top....
      funny i never worried about it...have had my locks for ten years now. i still have hair that is not dreaded at all...up front around my face...i have had to cut them twice, once they get close to the but...well..
      can't even figure out how one would crotchet hair....how long it would take me to figure it out! ha ha
      this seems appropriate...my daughter just recently decided this was her favorite song:

      RASTA MAN LIVE UP Bob Marley
      'grow your dreadlocks' don't be afraid of the wolf pack' one man walking' a million men stalking'

      'heed your culture, don't be afraid of the vulture'

      'david slew goliath' with a sling and a stone'

      trudging through creation in an ire meditation'

      'iron man live up'
      ' natty dread don't give up'
      • Kit
        Kit
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        Mon, February 18, 2008 - 8:40 AM
        well, felting and crocheting are quite different...a felting needle is a long needle with a lot of tiny hooks on it, and you stab the area repeatedly to tighten it, but not too much because it can be damaging...
        the way you crochet, is you stick the needle at the base of the loose hair area, and wrap the loose hairs around and around the needle and pull them through the dread, I hope that helps, its probably the worst description in the world XD haha but I think I'm going to post some pictures soon about how to felt and crochet dreads, as soon as my order comes in from Amazon.com!!!
        <3 and namaste!
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          Mon, February 18, 2008 - 10:15 AM
          i'm with cali....

          what a discussion!

          the lady whop inspired me finally to dread my hair who has the most beautiful locks for a white woman that i have EVER SEEN loops her locks every 6 weeks....

          she taught me how to do it and i have had very few problems with it. i agree, you gotta do it right. yuou have to switch directions often so as to avoid the "rope" look, and other than that, it keeps em looking pretty tight. i do it about every three weeks and i do it with a pair of tweezers to grab the tip and pull it through....

          • Kit
            Kit
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            Mon, February 18, 2008 - 11:00 AM
            well the thing is, I didn't do it to myself, one of my dready friends (not really anymore) came in drunk and started pulling on my head and looping in a really wrong way, she didn't do it the way you describe...and I can't get them out, so I have that split look going on in some of my dreads, but I dyed them dark brown the other day and it hides it pretty well...so hopefully all will be well!
            <3
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      Thu, February 21, 2008 - 4:52 PM
      the nice thing is everyone is different and no mater what ALL DREADS RULE!!!!!!
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        Fri, February 22, 2008 - 2:22 PM
        Yep... We're all different I guess.. I've had my dreds for almost 10 years and the only maintenance I know is looping.. I make sure there is enough hair there to loop at least twice, but in different directions to avoid the split route thingy....
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          Sat, February 23, 2008 - 6:48 AM
          oh dear. root. not route.
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            Wed, February 27, 2008 - 11:21 PM
            woweee!!! I thought I invented the root looping thing...glad I'm not alone.
            my first batch of dreads, which I had for 10 years, really took off when I started looping them at the root. At that point, the new growth was actual dread. Its a good technique except I don't like the holes and gaps it leaves the the dread, and it leaves a knotty and flat look.

            This time round (7 years now) I'm all about the small black rubber bands you can get from walgreens. I twist the dread, then loop the band around the root of the dread 5 times, placed about an inch from the root so that the dread can grow properly, and get a nice tight fit, no root fuzzies. I like the way it looks and feels. I leave them in until the rubber breaks down and they fall out. I do this once every couple months and thats all the maintenence I need.

            summary:
            I think if you like rounder dreads, I would choose the rubber band tecnique. If you like flat, knotty, and holey, do the root loop trick.

            we all have different hair, so this is what I've found for my hair type.

            good luck!!

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